Hubby's first day of work is tomorrow.
He drove over this afternoon/evening, and is at a friend's house. Okay, an online friend of mine from one of the kiddo's birth clubs, but still. She's awesome for offering to take him in for the short term here. And I'm lame and don't even remember her husband's name - he was the one that was still up to let my hubby in. Anyway, hubby made good time though - he probably didn't get out of town until almost 4pm, and he rolled in over there at 11pm or so. Granted, that's without rush hour traffic, but still. Gives me hope for later this week.
Also made a huge dent in progress of the house. Still have a few things I want to do before taking more progress photos
(rearranging some furniture, re-vacuuming, etc.). But damn, it's a huge difference. We got our real estate agent picked out. I'm totally going with my gut and who I feel comfortable with. Went against my gut (I think?) with the first one when we bought the place, and dang, a grocery cart probably would've been more helpful than him. We won't be able to get the house MLS/show ready for at least another 2-3 weeks though.
So, being the ticking time bomb I am, I just need to start prepping myself for somehow giving birth by myself with my 6yo's possible help. Will probably call my midwife and see if I can get a quickie appointment next week - I haven't had one since 12 weeks
(she really, really, really prefers clients have a babysitter or something while mom's in labor, but when I'm in labor I am not driving anywhere, nor do most of my friends have vehicles big enough to haul around my brood - and I'm private in that way that I don't want anyone but my husband, spawn and midwives even in the house when I give birth, regardless of how awesome some of my friends are). Kiddo's kicking and wiggling all the time, I've been doing okay at staying hydrated, and I haven't gained that much weight to where I feel all that different from the pregnancies before. My hands have felt somewhat swollen lately, but that could also be attributed to me doing so much around the house and forgetting/not having enough time to drink enough water.